The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
Never complain and never explain.
Things do not happen. Things are made to happen.
Be thine own palace, or the world's thy jail.
Who seeks shall find.
Expect problems and eat them for breakfast.
Do not weep do not wax indignant. Understand.
Without hard work, nothing grows but weeds.
Either you run the day or the day runs you.
Well done is better than well said.
Then, when I got in the military, I used to host - even in high school - I hosted the talent shows, and when I was in the military I would host all of our base Christmas parties and stuff.